Amy: What’s one piece of advice you wish someone had given you 10 years ago?
Terri: Say yes to everything — within reason, of course. So often we’re on our back foot with that imposter syndrome: Am I ready? Could I do it? It’s out of my comfort zone. Go for it. It took me time in my career to do that, and now that I’m older and wiser — and care less about what people think — it seems obvious. But pushing out of your comfort zone and saying yes to the opportunities in front of you: I wish someone had told me that earlier.
Amy: You’ve worked for a lot of great brands. What was one bold move that changed your career trajectory?
Terri: We’d been living in Charlotte for about 12 years. I was working for one of the most amazing financial institutions, had been there 10 years, taken on progressively larger roles, and loved it. Then I had the opportunity to become head of HR for a division of a company outside Philadelphia that had just made an acquisition.
I had to pause, because I was comfortable — but after 10 years, I knew I might never make a move if I didn’t take that one. My husband is incredibly supportive, and we decided as a family to move: two careers, three kids, some fish and dogs — and yes, we moved the fish — to Villanova, Pennsylvania, one of the most underrated places in the US. We spent three years there. We left family, friends, and everything we knew well.
I’d been part of this incredible, well-run machine, and it gave me an amazing toolkit. But what you don’t realize is that you’re not doing as much original thinking, building, or architecting. This role was starting from scratch — everything was unfamiliar. For the first six months it was a “what have we done?” kind of moment. But we rebuilt a team, did a lot of cultural transformation, and it was work that served me well in what came next. I never would have gotten the next opportunity without it. Big professional risk, big personal risk — with the right support. We ultimately came back to Charlotte, which wasn’t the plan. It unlocked a lot of doors.
Amy: And if you hadn’t left, you might not have realized what your social circle here really meant.
Terri: Well said. We have great family and good friends we call “framily” — that kind of family-and-friend. We feel really fortunate. With the exception of those years near Philadelphia, we’ve been in Charlotte for the better part of 25 years. This is absolutely home, and we’re thrilled to stay.
Amy: I look forward to seeing your next journey. Anybody who gets the chance to work with you, alongside you, or for you is fortunate — thank you for sharing your journey.
Terri: You’re a perfect example of a colleague who turns into a friend. Thank you.