Amy: What’s one piece of advice you wish someone had given you ten years earlier?
Mercedes: Challenge the status quo early and often — not to be contrarian, but to improve things. I’ve worked in a lot of systems that were less than ideal, and the people with the most impact are the ones who don’t protect the default settings. They challenge them, take calculated risks, and innovate. I wish I’d trusted that curiosity earlier, and trusted that challenging wasn’t disrespectful. It was leadership.
Amy: I hear that a lot, and some of it comes with maturity. But how do you help someone reach that maturity sooner in their career? I think about that often, especially with the women here at AccruePartners.
Mercedes: Leaders have to establish psychological safety — where people feel comfortable speaking up about what’s not working, but also feel safe to try ideas and to be okay with failing. Unless you fail, you don’t learn from it. So it takes leaders, it takes good mentorship, and it takes your own courage to try new things.
Amy: Last one: what’s one bold move that changed your career trajectory?
Mercedes: Probably the first time I raised my hand for a bigger executive role — after the president at the time had said there was no internal talent for it. Everyone got offended, and so did I, but not for long. I thought, “He barely knows me, let alone what I can do.” So I built a plan, asked for feedback, secured internal support, and threw my hat in the ring against eight external candidates. And I got the job. That shift changed how I saw myself and what I believed I could do.
That pattern repeated years later when I applied for the CEO role. I didn’t check all the traditional boxes, but I knew the business, I knew the people, and I knew what good could look like. Nobody tapped me on the shoulder. At some point you have to realize that nobody is going to crown you. You have to raise your hand, state your case, and ask for the seat.
I recently heard Barbara Corcoran — one of the Sharks — say that playing the victim in an unfair situation is just handing out your power. Nobody takes my power away, and I agree with her. Focus on what you can influence, and speak up. Confidence doesn’t come from knowing you’re perfect or that you know everything — it comes from knowing you’ll figure it out. But you have to be bold enough to step up and go for it.
Amy: You’ve got to be your own biggest fan. Nobody else is going to be there to do it for you.
Mercedes: No, no.
Amy: Mercedes, thank you for sharing more about your career journey and the pivotal moments that have gotten you where you are today.
Mercedes: Thank you, Amy. It was great chatting with you.